Unusual...
You work in marketing, yet you speak of ethics, are you unaware your industry is evil in any capacity, sexist or not?

Also if you pepper sprayed a man who just happened to be walking behind you without him making a move on you or acting towards you in any fashion other than walking in the same direction you are would be assault with a weapon. The fact that the world is sexist and you're a woman doesn't mean you have the right to use violence as you see fit, not everyone is a rapist.

Other than that I agree with everything you said.